Why... I mean it... seriously... Why?

Seriously I can't understand... Why would someone (nowadays, and knowing how I'm) say phrases extremely chauvinist and think that it's ok? I mean it... It was a great date... it's the first time someone cooked for me and he thought about lots of details like a good wine and chocolate for desert, he even bought a watermelon (I really love watermelons)... But then... When we got to the extra fun part... It wasn't that fun... He's really strong ideas about what he likes... This wouldn't be so bad if the one and only position he likes wasn't the missionary one... With no much of foreplay, if any... seriously... First time I still had my panties on... go figure...
It's really sad...